Hello,

My bf is extremely insecure about his size. He asks a lot of questions about previous men ive been with , not many, at all, but he ALWAYS seems to be comparing himself to them.

And yes, they were bigger..which seems to be getting to him. BUT i didn't like it. Truth be told, it hurt like hell. He is probably in the 'average' range, but to me it looks big...but id prefer one - like he has - where (sorry to be blunt), able to fit it in my mouth! lol and not choke or gag in a bad way.

Plus, i like him, who he is, thats what he comes with, thats what i like. I wish he'd get off the thing where he keeps saying that i wish he was bigger.

What can i do in this siutation? Are actions better than words? If so, what are good actions?

Everything i say, he says im lying. But im not. Am i better to keep reasuring him or ignoring the topic and telling him im not discussing it again?


any help would be great...