We can actually run from healthy relationships and those are the ones that we need to pursue. When I realized that I did this I explored why I did it and I was able to move beyond it. Peaches, you probably come across healthy potential friends frequently but your subconscious moves you along quickly and gets you outta there...........
Being in relationships with people who cross boundaries is not a good idea especially when you are vulnerable.
Heck, I'm dealing with a woman now on a board that I am on who is crossing my boundaries and it is very challenging!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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