Well if you're going to have sex you should be on birth control; condoms are smart but the BC is the big protection. Anyways I was prescribed Zovia when I was first on birth control; it doesn't give you crazy side effects unlike what I have heard other say about Yaz. Now Im on the Nuva Ring and I love that even more since I don't take a pill everyday. I'd say tell you're lady doctor all your symptoms and try to find a pill that doesn't make you so upset. If you find a good birth control you won't be paranoid when you have sex which I think is always really stressful. If you can't find a good one though, just get off it. There's no point to let it ruin your mood 75% of the time.