((((((Elysium))))))
What a hard time for you! You have every right to feel angry and frustrated with your family. If I was in your situation i would feel angry that noone told me about my mum.
I have needed to care for my mum before and it takes a lot of strength and hard work. You sound like you really worry alot about your family and i was just wondering if you can or have talked to your family?
hugs