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Old Apr 29, 2009, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Pomegranate View Post
Good for you! You really can get through this. And You REALLY, REALLY, deserve someone better than your current husband.
Thanks....I don't feel that way though....The text exchange between me and my husband just got worse and worse. He was saying, "Aww, come on, what's the big deal"...."You know you're good at it"...."Please, pretty please?"...."With a cherry on top".....

I told him that I was uncomfortable with his behavior and to please stop. I also told him that this seems to be a pattern with him - He lashes out...then apologizes and tries to be civil...then he gets overly sexual....I suggested that he raise this with his therapist.

I also told him that because of his behavior, I did not want him coming to the house tonight (he was coming over to pick up some things and also to possibly take our daughter for a while)....I said to contact me when he can respect my boundaries and be civil.

He then tried to call me. I didn't answer it and then texted him that I did not want to talk to him. He said he would have me paged. I told him that if he had me paged, it would cause problems at my work - and that I would file harrassment charges against him.

I haven't heard from him since.

AND, what ticks me off the most is that I accidentally deleted ALL of my text messages....GRRRR....I looked up the tech support for my particular phone and service, and unfortunately, I can't get them back.
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