Thanks very much. It didn't occur to me to use the report post option. i should have done that so that the person in question could perhaps get quicker support. Man, i hope i didn't mess up in that regard. i think i dissociated and froze a bit...i know i spaced out quite a bit trying to figure out what to say, do, think, feel. i guess i'm doing my best here just as everyone else here. Thanks again!