Ideally, the third. My family took advantage of the fact I just returned to the state, shut me and the kids out, and then took them from me the first opportunity that they had, and I can't fight them to get them back, as much as the kids and I want to be together, unless I luck out and win Power Ball! I scare them (the fam) now, because I have such a circle of friends, I could pull it all off now. Hmmm... any wonder I have issues with the elder family members?