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Old Apr 30, 2009, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Auroralso View Post
I thought all I have to do is say .

"I feel defensive right now ." and stop.

just that .
Im not sure what would happen next from the other person .
Sometimes that will bring on an attack from the other person. I think it would have from my mother when I was a child. So you might have to be prepared, or as prepared as possible, for that possibility. You are doing good work, but that doesn't mean others will always see that.
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Thanks for this!
Auroralso, phoenix7