manda,
i am sorry your husband betrayed what you said in confidence, that must have been really yukky.
my husband refuses to believe that DID exists and so he thinks i am a liar and a lazy person who "wants" to lie around and not get on with life and that has been really hurtful.
finally i am realizing that i believe me and my daughters believe me and that can be enough for me.
it is awfully hard when the people who are closest to us let us down in some way, i am sad for you and send you some hugs if you want them,



leslie and pixies