First, I love your name for some reason... I've not seen many usernames with "~" in them.

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience!! That sounds horrible... is there anyone at all that you can contact, to get your site up and running again? How did they gain access to it to shut it down?

Some people say mean things on the internet... I think it has something to do with people not always accepting that others on the other side behind a computer screen are people too. Or else some people just like to go on power trips to ruin other people's lives. I've come across that on a blogging site I'm a part of, in different communities there. It never fails to amaze me how some people can treat each other.