Sannah,

Actually I never really considered that I might have OCD although I did take the quiz here and it says I do. I don't do anything compulsive, its just really the obsessions, and then those don't really overwhelm me unless I am around him. I just thought I was an overly worried and anxious mom. I can see what you are saying about my millions of directions infringing upon his respect. I never looked at it that way. Thanks for replying, you've made me realize something I had never even thought of.