((((kathyM))))))))))))))))))))) Im so sorry all this is going on at once.
I wish i could wave my magic wand and make it go away.
The only thing that comes to mind right now is maybe consulaing for all of you.
not sure if that helped. Scares me alittle with my son going in.

please know I care and I wish i had a answer.
Push your son to get help threw the VA i do know that. Or even else where
(((((((big hug to you )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))