I like it when the critters come and get in my face and want attention and I need to give it and smile because they are just too adorable. I love it if I lay still on the couch and they sleep on me. The weight is a comfort. Hallibeth, these are awesome ideas and many are a part of my life. I believe that we can change the behavior and do something that more directly meets our down deep needs. Smell is a place that can comfort or upset me. I love comforting odors. Lavender and wild flower oil are the best but fresh cut Grass is cool too.