(((((((((((((((((((((sunshine))))))))))))))))))))))

It feels unethical to me that she was calling you "all the time". I could definitely imagine a therapist expressing a concern, questioning if more sessions would help...my T has done that...but in the end, it is your therapy, and after T has said his/her piece, you get to decide how much/how often to come. Perhaps she totally had your best interests at heart, but this still makes me uncomfortable.

Are you going to look for a new T?? I hope you find the right T for you