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May 01, 2009, 10:11 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Sally...
I happen to believe that there are people out there who do have a gift for "knowing" things. I am also skeptical at the same time however, always willing to look at all evidence of either side.
This being said, there is no evidence that states that what this lady said is not true. It could be that you and your husband are soul mates and do meet up in each lifetime. Then again, there is no evidence, other than what this means to you, that states anything this woman said was true.
Regardless, even if you are this man's soul mate, this does not necessarily mean that you are destined to spend your lives together. This does not mean that your relationship is meant to work, or that it is meant to be good. A lot of people who believe in past and future lives also believe that we meet people and go through experiences with them to learn things about ourselves, others, and the universe. It could just be that you are supposed to learn something from this relationship, whether it works out or not. If there's another lifetime coming for you, then maybe you will meet up with this soul again at another time. If not, then what's most important is living this life and being as healthy (physically and emotionally) as possible.
Ultimately, you need to take care of yourself, and keep yourself healthy and safe. If that means walking away from a soul mate and learning something from the relationship then that's what it means. It is a choice that YOU will have to make, and that YOU will have to square with in this life right now.
I don't know how much this will help, but I hope it assists with a little perspective.
I wish you and your partner well, wether you stay together forever, or go your separate ways at some point!! 
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