Wow - sounds like you are being triggered - I think the email for T triggered you and then your neighbours tested you and you didnt stand for it - thats ok - you shouldnt have to stand it maybe like you said you could have handled it better - hindsight is a wonderful thing Im sorry they are not acting like grown ups

Taking your emials is scary - i did that with things I had written - it helped me though - otherwise I would never have brought them up