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Originally Posted by Elysium3006
Sally...
I happen to believe that there are people out there who do have a gift for "knowing" things. I am also skeptical at the same time however, always willing to look at all evidence of either side.
This being said, there is no evidence that states that what this lady said is not true. It could be that you and your husband are soul mates and do meet up in each lifetime. Then again, there is no evidence, other than what this means to you, that states anything this woman said was true.
Regardless, even if you are this man's soul mate, this does not necessarily mean that you are destined to spend your lives together. This does not mean that your relationship is meant to work, or that it is meant to be good. A lot of people who believe in past and future lives also believe that we meet people and go through experiences with them to learn things about ourselves, others, and the universe. It could just be that you are supposed to learn something from this relationship, whether it works out or not. If there's another lifetime coming for you, then maybe you will meet up with this soul again at another time. If not, then what's most important is living this life and being as healthy (physically and emotionally) as possible.
Ultimately, you need to take care of yourself, and keep yourself healthy and safe. If that means walking away from a soul mate and learning something from the relationship then that's what it means. It is a choice that YOU will have to make, and that YOU will have to square with in this life right now.
I don't know how much this will help, but I hope it assists with a little perspective.
I wish you and your partner well, wether you stay together forever, or go your separate ways at some point!! 
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I really did not consider the fact that she could have been right in the aspect that i will always meet him and be together but that it could be to learn something. All that was going through my head was that she meant forever. Maybe what she was reading was that we do meet each life for a reason and that is why we are a form of soul mate but maybe we meet each other to learn something for our future each time. It would make a lot of sense because from this relationship i have learned quite a lot and know i will not take things for granted as i did in past relationships. A part of me has been thinking of going to another psychic and seeing what they say and compare but i do not know if it is worth the money. Some people just tell you really vague things that could happen to anyone, some people are gifted. I do believe that women i met was gifted because of the things she said blew me away just the whole point of together always scared me, especially at that point when i was at the point of never being that unhappy.
I want to do what is healthiest for me and i know at this point that it would be to leave him but that doubt of what she said has been literally killing me. I always thinking of what if i regret it, hes from another country so the whole legality of it makes it more complicated. But i do know that he has held me back from alot of things that made my life happy, i have been into art since i could pick up a pencil but he has held this back from me and tells me i can only do artwork of what he wants and from this i get no inspiration and have given up on it. I used to be very good at it and got alot of awards but now i have no drive to touch a paintbrush again. I also left college because he said i should spend all my time with him not studying. I dont want to be working where i am right now all my life, i know i could do something amazing i could feel it, like invent something that changes things but im held back from that. I cant see my friends when i want to he guilts me out of it, including my twin sister all he does is bad talk her. I just wish i had some sort of sign that i should end it now. Wish i knew. My sister told me that my dad was going to have a talk with me about how he thought this man wasnt right for me and to get my as* back in school and start drawing again. However my dad passed away before he got to tell me and my sister decided to tell me after we got married... If i knew my dad did not have his blessing on this i would have defintly not done it.
It just sucks...