(((cat))) thinking about your psychologist is a normal thing. . . and it can be part of your therapy. Our therapists model good behavior for us. We need to realize that they are human beings with personal lives, who work for a living... work to help those of us who suffer emotionally. Too much inquiry about your T might not be a good thing, but if you feel it becomes that, be sure to discuss it with your T... and your therapy will continue to progress.

Sometimes the only path we CAN walk is the one of least resistance. Who said that is a bad thing? Getting from point A to point B can be done in many different ways. Not all are good ones, but they work.

Be gentle with yourself. Social phobia is a tough thing because the very thing you need for growth is the very thing you fear...

Let your T help you. Don't push yourself. ((((hugs))) (if you want them.)