This poem by lesbian poet Judy Grahn is one of my favorites. I hope you find some comfort in it:

If you lose your lover

rain hurt you. blackbirds
brood over the sky trees
burn down everywhere brown
rabbits run under
car wheels. should your
body cry? to feel such
blue and empty bed dont
bother. if you lose your
lover comb hair go here
or there get another

~Judy Grahn~