I am right there with you. Mine is 5, almost 6 and I struggle daily with remembering that I love him so much so that I don't lash out irrationally. Its so hard sometimes. And what makes it harder that as mothers, we get alot of guilt trips for speaking up and saying we're having troubles. But there it is, the undeniable fact. I can't give much advice because I am asking for it myself but there are some great advice givers on here. I wish you luck and a hug because sometimes that is what we need most of all.