I understand you here, but there has been a lot of behind the scenes things going on if you are referring to what I think you are, if you knew what they were you may think a little differently, though yes I really understand your point as well.
With hope it will be gone soon and all of us can move on

BTW I say "peek-a-boo" to the one behind your blue couch

** hugs of hope **
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON