ok, the b/f and I have got a pretty crazy relationship if thats what you want to call it...but , I love him and live in his house..here's the prob.... My daughter (23) just gave birth to my first grandchild and it was a very hard time for her ( I really thought she wasnt going to make it ) I invited her to come and stay with me for the weekend so I could help her by showing her a few things because this is her first child and she is in alot of pain & I could maybe help her by letting her get some rest...anyhow. The B/f has been making no attemp to be pleasant and he said to me " I sure hope the baby doesn't cry allnight" it really hurts me that I can't help my daughter out and to NOT cause any problems with the b/f I sent her back home...He has been in his room allday and I feel like a terrible mother for not being there for my daughter....just needed to vent I guess. this isnt the first time he has acted this way towards my children....he lives very close to his family and we do everything with them ........makes me so upset.......