I sometimes feel that way too....and I haven't been with my T long enough to create a close bond...I am sure it would feel devastating to me to have such close, strong feelings towards T and feeling that his feelings towards me are so much "less".

I guess it's the feeling that he could be less genuine than he comes off as....or wondering what he REALLY feels about me.

I don't agree, though, that they can't have true emotional feelings towards many clients. I think it's absolutely possible. I've always felt that there's no limit to caring...you don't run out of it....But, I do believe that T's are well trained not to carry those emotions outside of the session or else it would be overwhelming.