I really need some help with the problem. I am at a real loss for words. Actually I feel like I am shaking my head saying WHAT!
I recently moved in with a man that had been a room mate. We would go places on the weekend and have fun together. He kept telling me he was not into relationships. But we kept the relationship I guess you could say as friends with benefits. Well, he moved about 200 miles away. We kept seeing each other. The weekends would be really fun! I guess fun is the key word here. Well after a few months he decided that I should move to where he lived. We found a house together. Now He tells me I dont seem as happy and we are not having fun like we were on the weekends. Well, I feel like get real this is real life and every day is not a fun weekend. I am still the same person I was. Everyday life is just that! He seems to feel this is on me and he is close to saying forget the whole thing. That is unreal to me! I feel I have to be careful about the what I say to him about this because if I am not he will not listen. I am not ready to throw this relationship away. I love this man and I want to keep this relationship but not like this that is for sure. I appreciate your imput as always