Wondering if others here have experience with incest. How old were you when it occurred? Have you ever told anyone? Did you experience romantic, and/or sexual problems as a result?

I am haunted by a couple of memories from childhood. Both from age 5. One is of me giving my 8 yr-old brother a b.j. The other, I gave another boy a b.j. I have always felt intense shame when I recall those events. I haven't ever told anyone about them.

I've experienced many problems since (I'm 38 y.o. female). I don't know what to do ~ or where to go. I seriously don't even know who I am!!