Christina
Many thanks for taking time to put this together!!!!
It's surprising how much damage can be done to us in a short moment and how long the healing takes - but the healing is the miracle.
you wrote
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Originally Posted by Christina86
.........I may not be able to turn back time. But what's in the past, is there. Yes, it hurts and it sucks and it wasn't ever my fault - but it's in the past, and it's staying there and I can't change it. However, I can learn from it, I can heal from it - and I can get over and through it.
And at the end of the day: I am a better and more whole and good person - and that's something I've got to be proud of.
I have survived the ab*se. I am here. I can live a good life and while I cannot "forget" it, I can at least stop blaming myself!
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AND - you also have learned a compassion you never knew before, I am willing to bet; you have become a larger soul for it. The work is hard but you are on the way -
thanks
so much for sharing this.
