Thanks (((((((((((everyone)))))))))))

Feelings are so difficult.
It will get easier, I am sure. In the meantime I wade thru muck.
Pretty deep muck right now, but at least i see some solid ground
ahead.

seems to be a delicate balancing act here.
T seemed to want to "fix" things yesterday as did a RL friend.
We don't want "fixes". We want ppl to understand that it is "broken"
and can't be fixed. Help us walk thru the grief process of ending
a very deep, bonded and strong, though very toxic, relationship. Let us be where we are and meet us there. Seems like T and RL friends don't get it.