((((((((((thunderbear)))))))))))

We DO know what you're going through. I'm sorry your husband doesn't seem to. Maybe him getting upset with you is his way of showing that he's worried? Some people show their worry with anger or irritation. And I know what you mean about worrying about things that are bs ... I'm pretty sure that's a hallmark of depression, fixating on little things that we build up in our heads to end-of-the-world proportions. Sending lots of hugs. I hope things get better for you soon.