People who don't know anything outside of a textbook should SHUT UP about how I deal with my feelings and stuff - especially about situations of abuse!!

My "disability coordinator" told me she didn't think I was "over" the assault that happened to me in November because I talked about it *in public*. Yes, I'm not apt to keep it quiet. Did that, but it's nothing horribly traumatic. It was just ... gross. But not the most traumatic thing I've ever been through!

So apparently talking about it out loud in a waiting room and in front of people (okay, I seriously JUST SAID: Was assaulted in November, a guy tried to cram his tongue in my mouth) means I'm *clearly* not over it.

Sure, it wasn't the best situation but I didn't want to waste her time and book an appt to get her up to speed with stuff. Then she went all stupidly concerned and tried AGAIN to get me to see an oncampus T. I've got one off campus, kthnxbai! She was all like "how are you dealing, are you seeing someone, do you need to talk, are you sure youre dealing with it, are you taking your antidepressants".

Grrr. It's NOT HER BUSINESS NOR RESPONSIBILITY. I was just explaining why I've basically flunked most of my classes this year. Yes, I'm over that ONE incident - but it brought up more stuff from the past which is a BIT MORE FREAKING COMPLICATED and I don't need her trying to boss me around. I havent lost my mind, Im actually fine around guys again and I dont have triggers as a result.

If this is what I get for actually keeping her informed - well then she can remain safely in the dark.

I worked hard to get to an emotionally good spot and she told me she didnt think I was over it...

She's not a therapist, she's got her Masters in Psychology but SO WHAT?@!? She knows squat.

I'm clearly mad because she made me question my abilities to cope. I hate people invalidating me.