I remember in my 8th grade year of middle school, my friend and I would pick on this girl (not to her face, but loud enough to where she could hear it). I REALLY regret doing this, I feel like such a horrible person knowing that I did this. I dont remember why we were picking on her...The reason doesnt matter because being mean is being mean period. I have matured since then and I realize that what I did was wrong...I just feel as though maybe I should apoligize to her? But I dont want to go up to her and say "Im sorry for picking on you in 8th grade..." and then she goes "What are you talking about?!" I dont want her to think Im crazy...What should I do? I know how it feels to be bullied and I also know how it feels to be a bully...Is this normal in growing up? I feel as though I need to be punished for what I have done.