Hi, I regret the man I was involved with. I married him , but it didn't last. I had all my kids with him, but I was young. I was 14 the first time, and I had my daughter when I was 17. From reading your post it seems to me that you want a good relationship with him, but he's telling you that he wants something more then that. Honestly just from reading your post I would tell him no. If he chooses to break up because of that, then he doesn't care about you in the first place. A lot of girls and women make the mistake of giving the guy what he wants. When in reality a guy should be more concerned with pleasing the girl/woman first. No one can tell you what to do, but if I was you I would be asking myself if he's really going to stick around. It might be his pleasure, but your pain. A guy that cares will wait when you feel it's right with you. One more thought. If your scared then I really don't think your ready because he's pressuring you to do it. Take Care.