I agree. Name calling reverts back to elementary school and is not something mature people do (hopefully). Guys have always said to me that if they consistently turn down sex on a regular basis then they're either cheating or gay and in denial. Sounds pretty primitive but...my friend and her boyfriend have been together over 3 years and have had some pretty big fights with break up threats etc... Well, he will deny her sex, then, when she leaves, take care of himself. And every guy that she talked to about it said that he doesn't care about her or even like her if he's doing that.