It feels good to know that there are those who DO get it
we mailed the phone back yesterday----the one she sent us so we could talk for free----end of daily/several times a day communications. closure?
to Naomi it felt like a burial with no ritual. Her heart is shattered and she is nearly inconsolable. her best and only RL friend was one of "the friend's" insiders. and Naomi carries the hurt and pain and sadness for the whole system. It's grief multiplied in intensity.

Trying all the grounding skills and tools available to us. But letting her talk inside and outside is all we can really do. but she feels no RL person understands---esp. what got stirred up when the post person tossed the box with the phone in the container.......