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Originally Posted by salukigirl
so are you thinking that this makes them not enemies? honestly, i think when the parents get involved in little things like that it makes it even worse. I think that, kids are going to have to deal with people like that and they need to learn how to cope with it. At age 11, she's not that far from being a teenager and you can't protect her all the time. She's going to have to learn that some people are just jerks. As long as it's not anything where her life is in danger, I think it might be better to just keep a watchful eye, but ultimately back off a little and let her make her own decisions.
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Thanks for the opinion and yes I do try to let her make decisions on her own. When we did this I wasn't concerned about being enemies or not, Since he used to bother her before I don't consider him friendship material. If my child used profanity over the internet - I would want to know so I could stop it. I don't think using the F word and insulting her is a "little thing". It's actually cyber bullying! Unfortunately your post only makes me feel worse.
She was very upset and crying. At least now she got an apology.