TLKL....
You HAVE to be one of the most entertaining to read on this site.
You are a kick in the pants. I so love reading your posts.
I know you'll do just fine with all of it. Like you've said youself, you know yourself best by just "winging it", (although, having a list handy to refer to for backup is comforting as well).
I know you're strong and will endure. I admire your sense of humor throughout all of this. Humor is essential.
Hang in there. You can do it!!
Shangrala