Today out of no where there was a knock at the door. i was in bed sleeping but got woken up by talking. My Psychiartrist an Psychologist and some other lady i dont know who is showed up at my house and asked for me but dad said i was asleep. They started talking to dad and asked if 20 questions about if i cry, if im socialising, if i sleep all day, if i talk to him, and what i do. Dad said we don't speak much as i keep to myself. They went on telling dad how im going to see SARC which is a sexual abuse concelling service here. Dad didnt know about it. Hell, they didnt even know who i was abused by or what happened as i hadn't got that far with them yet, so for all they knew he could have been my abuser. They could have put me in danger. Dont they need my permission to talk to dad about that? Is it a breach? I didnt even know they were coming. Dad said he thought i was coping and was fine. i hide things from him so he wouldnt know otherwise, an they said they disagreed an thought i was struggling. They asked him about my suicidal thought. Dad DIDNT know anything about it. i feel as though ive been violated all over again. i dont know what to do. im seriously considering not having any councelling cos im scared the trust will be broken again. im so angry an hurt this happened as now dads been asking questions an i feel like my every move is being watched an questioned.
PLEASE HELP what do i do please any suggestions.
Do you think this was a breach of confidenitality?
Or am i overreacting?