In the Constitution of the Five Nations (native american) it says:
<font color="blue"> When an infant dies before it's fourth day of life, mourning shall continue only five days.
Then shall you gather the little boys and girls at the house of mourning, and at the funeral feast, a speaker shall address the children, and bid them be happy once more, even though by a death, gloom has been cast over them.

Then shall the black clouds roll away and the sky shall show blue once more. Then shall the children be again in sunshine.</font>

My heart grieves with you. Such sadness only the Great Spirit can mend. (((love)))