Gosh, this is every parents worst fear....and what can be said, or done at this point. Trying to understand your daughters plight as she undergoes the transition into adulthood (she's probably confused as you are). Giving her support, love, and guidance (goes without saying). Stay as calm as possible (don't overreact or judge, or be overbearing)....I'm no expert.....I wish you well and good luck....post back