i think this is a tough issue. i've kept a journal for years but i wouldn't ever want anyone to read it as i use it to get out some very negative feelings. the things i write in my journal i would never say to anyone as i'm just trying to express my negative emotions and release them in a safe way. when i talk to someone i'm going to be a lot more tactful! i'm not married and i've wondered how married couples handle this. i don't think it's cool that your husband feels he has "the right" to spy on you without your permission by accessing your email and journal. have you and your husband tried any marriage counseling? maybe that could help you guys navigate conflicts like this. take care.