I agree, it is not ok for him to do this. My husband and I have a totally open and communicative relationship but there are still just some things I like to keep to myself. These are MY things. If I give everything to someone else, I feel like I have nothing left to me. We are individuals, we have the right to maintain our own feelings and thoughts without having someone else look at them and read them. I have an email account where I send myself journal entries. The poem idea is a really good one too. Good luck with this.