i don't think pdoc is very mindful - he reacts very quickly sometimes, but i love that about him because it means what i am getting from him is genuine.

i think my old-T was too caught up in his own self-awareness to be able to give me what i needed.

i don't know a lot about my current T (seen him 3 times only) but he seems mindful, i think. he does emphasise it as something to be aware of and he seems like someone who would try to do those things himself. what i like about him the most is that he self-discloses a lot, and so i feel our relationship is very genuine too.