(((((((hangingon))))))

Ugh, you were sooo brave to write both of those emails to your T....I could NEVER do that. You expressed yourself so well.

Regarding your last email to T, I think you wanting and needing to know something about T and asking her to share something about herself with you is only fair--just as long as it doesn't cross a boundary. My T keeps asking me if there is anything I want to know about her...if I'd feel more comfortable or safer disclosing more if I knew something about her. I kind of don't know what to ask b/c I don't want to get too personal. I know she is from NY originally and moved to where she is now 7 years ago and she has a son. Outside of that I don't know anything. Im wondering if it would help me if I knew just a tad bit more about her....

Hangingon, I am sure your T won't mind disclosing a little bit about herself, especially if it will make you feel a bit more safer and comfortable. Maybe T hasn't responded because she wants to discuss this at your next appt?