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Originally Posted by pachyderm
How many of you would say you have a noticeably "mindful" T? That is, someone who seems to be quite self-aware, aware of her (or his) own motivations and feelings. Or does your T just react, without being particularly aware of what he or she is doing?
Do you care?
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Usually. Not always.
I appreciate that he is mindful, but I also appreciate those times when he's totally spontaneous. It's a different sort of appreciation.