i can relate...i became engaged to someone who became emotional after she decided to go back to school fulltime while working fulltime. I thought i was being careful to find someone who at least had time for a relationship, it hurt to leave but if i had not, my chances for happiness would be nill. now we both have new chances to find happiness. You deserve a lot more good things in the future! there are a lot more lesbians on here besides myself than i first realised...how cool is that?!