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imapatient · May 10, 2009, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by deliquesce

thanks guys .

as far as my head space is going, though... not going very well

. pdoc is a good person, and he helps lots of people get better, and i'm just a stone that sunk and refuses to budge. i'm a bad person, and i think i should stop seeing pdoc because i dont want to waste his time anymore. my 'issues' are the result of me being bad when i was younger, and this is my punishment.

Deli, you are NOT a bad person. What sort of life do you live now, how do you treat people now? You are what you are and do now, not some time in the past.

You were not a bad person as a child. As a child you weren't responsible for your actions, you weren't mature enough to understand the world and to know what was best. Whatever you did, anything done by adults around you were their decisions, their choices. Their responsibility. You didn't force any adult to do something. They acted of their own volition.

Your issues today aren't a rule of you being bad; they're a result of adults in your life having been bad an abusive. Good people--maybe, but abusive, yes.

I’m really happy for you that your experiences with Mr. X are going so well. It’s so good to hear that you have good things going on throughout your life: Great pdoc, so far great T, this guy. It’s all good. You’re doing so much better than you were 2 months ago.