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May 10, 2009, 01:37 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2009
Location: Rockford, IL.
Posts: 660
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Ely
 Woah!!! You sure you want to call this guy a friend?
No, I want to down grade him to accointance slowly. We've known him for a long time. He's entertaining to play cards with & basketball with because he's extremely competitive...which get's my competitive juices flowing...but outside of that...uhhg. This gets complex because we are good friends with his wife & he's a teacher here...which is the field I'm going into.
OK...my opinion is to do both 4 and 5, but I would present this as a united front, you and your wife together.
Ok, so have my wife be politely blunt but with me there with her.
Don't beat the crap out of him...you'd just get in trouble and he's not worth it.
Yeah,I don't know if he would call the cops or not. I haven't faught in years. Way back in High school I kicked a kid in the jaw & broke it in three places for saying he was going to rape BC & make me watch.
I did get kicked out of school, but a couple years later he went to prison for raping his 9 year old niece.
Don't ignore it because if that worked, he wouldn't have taken it this far.
Agreed
I would seriously re-evaluate your friendship.
I am, I just have to work out the dynamics of how to make that happened...who knows if all goes "well" enough after we confront him maybe he won't want to be around us.
And if you have a decent relationship with his wife, you may want to let her know what he said about her.
Yeah, it was something said under the bond of male confidence. The more crap like this though....what bond?
He was probably just talking out his ***, hopefully, but you never know!Unfortunately, he was 100% serious...I know it
This doesn't sound like a healthy friend to me.
Agreed
Just my thoughts.
That may be but I hope you understand that I value your thoughts
Hope things work out for you both.
It will. I'm just want to wait a couple days so I don't react as much off of emotion & instinct & to see what some people here think about it.
TY,
LK
Keep us posted!! 
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