Oh my!
SRAIGHT UP #5 . No doubt about it.
He needs to hear it from your wife, since she is the focus of his desires. She needs to bluntantly cut to the chase here, which is obviously him toward your wife. Whatta Jerk..(to put it mildly).
I'm so sorry this is happening.
(There's loads more what I'd like to add to this, but I'm too tattered tonite to even think straight.....).
Shangrala