I think if your looking for non-judgemental threatning support via feedback on a web site, thats not always going to be possible as everyone is at a different stage of their journey.

It sounds like perhaps you need one on one with a professional at this point in your life until you can manage the sometimes "way out there" feedback that is possible on web sites.

Then you will not be effected by others judgements because you will feel secure enought inside and can just say "ok I hear you, but thats not right for me right now".