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Old May 10, 2009, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted by pachyderm View Post
How many of you would say you have a noticeably "mindful" T? That is, someone who seems to be quite self-aware, aware of her (or his) own motivations and feelings. Or does your T just react, without being particularly aware of what he or she is doing?

Do you care?
My T is rather self aware, kind, polite, and mindful. I do care, and all people should care about having a T who might not be aware of what they are doing.

My question is if you are personally concerned that your T is not mindful and very reactionary, without any real awareness or concern for you and your problems? If so, have you addressed this with him/her?

You don't often answer my questions (yep, I'm mindful and I do notice such things, FYI), so I won't be offended if you don't answer this one.
Later gator.
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