Maybe her husband beat her. Or was a pedophile, drunk...having an affair.
What, about half of marriages end in divorce? It's not exactly an extraordinary situation.
Maybe they just didn't click for whatever reason. I can understand the concern. I'd mention it since it's an important issue to you. Seeing it in a newspaper isn't violating boundaries. Do you really expect a T to share that info?
I'd think in many ways it's a benefit of sorts. Having a T who's been through serious relationship problems should make it easier for her to understand some of your issues first-hand.
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